雙語(yǔ)美文：我不同意你的觀點(diǎn)，但我尊重你
雙語(yǔ)美文：我不同意你的觀點(diǎn)，但我尊重你
現(xiàn)在人與人之間應(yīng)該互相尊重，即使我不同意你的觀點(diǎn)，我也應(yīng)該尊重你，請(qǐng)大家來(lái)一起欣賞一下這篇雙語(yǔ)美文：我不同意你的觀點(diǎn)，但我尊重你。
雙語(yǔ)美文：我不同意你的觀點(diǎn)，但我尊重你
With the years gone by, I have found that more and more people that I met have different views from mine.
隨著一年一年過(guò)去，我發(fā)現(xiàn)，我和越來(lái)越多的人觀點(diǎn)不同。
Sometimes I couldn't even use the word "different" to describe this, because our views were almost conflicting.
有時(shí)候，甚至已經(jīng)不能用“不同”來(lái)形容，而是“針?shù)h相對(duì)”。
In the past, I used to tend to argue with people like this. I always wanted to persuade them all and make them accept my view while admitting that they themselves were wrong.
在以前，我傾向于和所有這樣的人進(jìn)行爭(zhēng)辯，總是希望能在最終說(shuō)服他們所有人，讓他們接受我的觀點(diǎn)，并承認(rèn)他們自己是錯(cuò)誤的。
But as time passed by I gradually came to realize that what I had been doing might be not right.
但是后來(lái)我發(fā)現(xiàn)，這么做本身似乎就是錯(cuò)的。
Every person has different experience. And our views are extracted from our own experiences.
每個(gè)人的經(jīng)歷都是不一樣的，而我們的觀點(diǎn)正是自己經(jīng)歷的濃縮。
There are too much subjective things in these views. And we think there's no need to question these beliefs.
這里面有太多主觀的東西，有些東西在我們自己看來(lái)簡(jiǎn)直毋庸置疑。
But when you ask yourself "Why are these beliefs right?"
但是，當(dāng)你問(wèn)自己“這些觀點(diǎn)為什么是對(duì)的?”
The only answer you can give yourself may just be "Because they are just right."
你所能給出的回答很可能只是“因?yàn)榫褪菍?duì)的啊?！?/p>
And where is the logic in all of this?
那么，這里面的邏輯又在哪呢?
That's why now I choose to respect a person even if our views are totally different.
所以，現(xiàn)在的我，即使觀點(diǎn)和別人不同，也會(huì)選擇尊重這種不同。
Because, ultimately, I cannot be sure that what I think is right.
因?yàn)槲艺娴臒o(wú)法確定我自己的想法就是對(duì)的。
Better let result be the judge.
一個(gè)做法是否正確，我們還是讓事情的結(jié)果來(lái)評(píng)判吧。
雙語(yǔ)美文：請(qǐng)讓自己值得擁有愛(ài)情
If you're really longing for love, don't just wait for it to happen.
如果你真的渴望愛(ài)情，就不要只是期待遇到誰(shuí)。
Make yourself deserving this love.
去讓自己變得值得擁有這份愛(ài)情吧。
Don't just wait for someone to warm your heart every time you feel low.
不要只是期待每次你失落的時(shí)候有人溫暖你。
Become someone who can warm others.
去變成一個(gè)能溫暖別人的人吧。
If you want something beautiful, the best way to get it is to make yourself deserving it.
要得到一樣美好的東西，最好的做法是讓自己變得值得擁有它。
It's all the same whether what you want is wealth or love or fame.
不管是財(cái)富，還是愛(ài)情，亦或是名望，都是如此。
No one likes a person who only asks for things.
沒(méi)有人喜歡一個(gè)只知道索取的人。
And love is not an elixir.
而愛(ài)情也不是什么萬(wàn)靈藥。
True love is not illogical.
真正的愛(ài)情并不是不合邏輯的。
It's not irrational.
它也不是非理性的。
It's the resonance of two mature souls.
它是兩個(gè)成熟靈魂的心心相惜。
So don't just wait for love to be handed to you. It doesn't come that way. True love comes from efforts.
所以，不要渴求愛(ài)情從天而降，它不會(huì)的。正正的愛(ài)情，是奮斗與經(jīng)營(yíng)的結(jié)果。
And only love like this can go far.
這樣的愛(ài)，才會(huì)長(zhǎng)久。