導(dǎo)語(yǔ)：the principle of training, and understanding to care人生離不開(kāi)友誼，但要得到真正的友誼才是不容易;友誼總需要忠誠(chéng)去播種，用熱情去灌溉，用原則去培養(yǎng)，用諒解去護(hù)理。

　　A good friend

　　A good friend is someone who can share our happiness and sadness , who would feel happy with us when we have some achivements or someone who would go though fire and water to help us when we get into trouble , a person that will be our side wheneven we need him . A good friend is a person who can give his shoulder to let us lean agains until our tears run dry . A friend is a person with whom I maybe sincere , with him , I may think aloud . Yes , Life is not a bed of roses . It is full of ups and downs , turns and twists . We can't be able to predict or guess what will happen to us .

　　You may come across an accident without warning . If such is the case , you have got to go to hospital . If you are rich enough , you may tide over it by youself . But if not , you have to turn to your friends for help . If you are kind and good to others , you may have many friends and they may try their best to help you to get out . You may think that it's good to have friends and in future , you may compensate them in return . You may get your pink letter and then you may feel like pins and needles .At the moment , friends seem more important than anything . You need a close friend to comfort me and share your astonishment . They may make you forget the unhappiness temprorily . Not only so , they may give you some advice or provide you with some information about work .

　　However , we may feel upset and disturbed because we have just had a quarel with one of my friends . We don't greet each other any longer when we meet . We mayn't walk or have meal together . We may think it 's not my fault . It 's him not me that should apologise . Neither are willing to surrender . Yes , self -esteem is important to anyone ,but we have to give up , sometimes , in order to mend our fences . If we really care bout our friendship , who apologise does matters ? Perhaps .

　　Cherish your friends , as they are the most important people in your life . You may feel that even the dark night would be a good day with their accompanying . You may think that every day is wonderful and beautiful when you are surrounded by a goup of friends .

　　Are all friends the same?

　　If you are like most people, you probably have many different kinds of friends. For example, think about the person who lives next door to you. Your neighbor might be a convenience friend. A convenience friend is someone who is in your life because of where you live, or maybe where you work. You probably wouldn't have a reason to be friends if you were in another situation. Convenience friends really are convenient. They will lend you small things you need or give you a ride if you need one.

　　Another kind of friend is a special-interest friend. These are friends who share an interest with you. You might play tennis once a week with a special-interest friend, or go shopping, or go to the theater. We usually don't get too close to convenience friends or special-interest friends. We don't tell them too much about ourselves. But that doesn't mean they aren't important in our lives. And many times these relationships grow into strong friendships.

　　Did you have a good friend when you were growing up? Maybe you don't see this friend often, but he or she is still an important part of your past. You might not have much in common now, but a childhood friend can put you in touch with an earlier part of yourself. Childhood friends often become life-long friends. "I only talk to Bill every two years, or so, but he's still very special to me," says Tom. "He knows things about me that no one else knows. And he knows the people from my childhood. He knew my grandfather. He remembers eating my Aunt Betty's pies. He is, in a way, like a brother."

　　Another interesting kind of friend is a friend who is much older or younger than you are. It can be a pleasure for the older person to share lessons learned from past experiences. The younger friend enjoys talking to an older person who is not a parent. Janie's friend is sixty-seven years old. "She is older than my mother, but I can talk to her about life," Janie says. "I tell her things that I wouldn't tell my mom."

　　Then there are friends of the opposite sex. Many men and women become close friends. "Lynn is a great friend," says Rick. "We have a lot in common, and she can always make me laugh. We really care for each other." Lynn says, "I hate it when people ask if we are just friends. We both date other people. That doesn't have anything to do with our friendship."

　　Finally, there are best friends. Best friends are special people. They will come running to help you when you need them. You can tell them your deepest secrets and they will always love and support you. Best friends are the rarest kind of friend. They will always be there for you, no matter what happens. And you will always be there for them. That's a rare thing, indeed.