雙語閱讀：20多歲時戀愛你需要了解的十件事

　　Avoid posting pics on Facebook every time you kiss, or Tweeting about your plans every other minute. While people may be happy about your relationship, they don’t want to hear about it 24/7.

　　不要每次都把親吻的照片都放到Facebook上，也不要每次有什么計劃就發(fā)推。盡管人們可能因你開始戀愛了而感到高興，但他們不希望一天到晚全是這件事。

　　7. Be Yourself & Let Your Partner Do The Same

　　做自己，也給對方做自己的機會

　　One of the key aspects of every relationship is letting yourself and your special someone be themselves. You were attracted to this person for a reason, and there’s no need to try and change them.

　　戀愛中關(guān)鍵的一點是，讓自己和你的那個她(他)做自己。你被對方吸引不無緣由，沒必要下功夫去改變他們。

　　Likewise, don’t let someone try to change you. You are who you are, and if that’s not good enough for either of you, then this isn’t really a relationship that’s going to work.

　　同樣，不要讓對方改變你，你就是你，如果互相覺得不適合，那不如趁早散伙。

　　8. Be Adventurous & Enjoy Your Time Together

　　敢于嘗試，并一起享受生活

　　This is another one that’s very important. Remember that you’re still in your 20s and you should be having as much fun as possible.

　　這也是很重要的一點。你們才20多歲，應(yīng)該盡情地享受生活。

　　Set aside time to do both of your favorite activities and hobbies. Be adventurous and try something new that you’ve both never done before. Don’t take yourself that seriously. Make jokes and laugh about anything and everything.

　　為喜愛的活動與愛好留出時間。敢于冒險，嘗試新事物。別太把自己太當回事，說說笑話，盡情歡笑。

　　9. Communication is Important

　　交流亦重要

　　Every relationship expert will emphasize the importance of communication in a long-lasting relationship. Each night, talk about your day, your concerns, your thoughts, and your dreams with one another. As the other person is talking, be sure to listen attentively, and communicate your interests and feelings.

　　戀愛專家都強調(diào)交流在持久戀愛過程中的重要性。晚上，一起聊聊白天的工作、關(guān)心的事情、想法和夢想。當對方講述時，用心傾聽，了解對方的興趣和感受。

　　10. Trust, But Without Being Naive

　　信任，但不抱幻想

　　Trust is important. It’s the backbone of all relationships, especially those in your 20s. Avoid hacking your loved one’s cell phone, computer, and emails. This isn’t going to solve anything.

　　信任很重要，它是各種關(guān)系的基石，尤其對20多歲的年輕人來說。不要窺探愛人的手機、電腦和郵件。這解決不了問題。

　　When situations arise, trust only reliable sources, such as those who aren’t trying to sabotage your relationship. On the flip side, don’t be naive about the situation either.

　　有疑問時，只依賴可靠信息源，例如那些沒有破壞你戀愛關(guān)系企圖的人。如果確有情況，也不要抱有天真幻想。

　　You both deserve to be happy, and if things don’t work out, as they say, there are other fish in the sea.

　　你們兩人都應(yīng)該快樂，如果戀愛不成功，記住人們常說的那句話，天涯何處無芳草。

　　Following these simple relationship rules—if you’re meant to be together—is truly the way to make your relationship work, and last a lifetime.

　　如果你們注定在一起，遵循這些簡單的戀愛準則毫無疑問會促進你們的關(guān)系，并讓你受益終生。